Reflect on a specific area in your life. An example of this is setting boundaries, in your relationships. Using the SMART framework, create a goal that is specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound.
Instead of "I want better boundaries," a specific goal could be: "I will communicate my need for personal space by scheduling regular 'me time' and expressing my boundaries clearly and assertively to my partner."
Review this chart before creating your SMART goals at the bottom of this page.
| Area of Reflection | Goal |
|---|---|
| Setting Boundaries | Reflect on a specific area in your life where you need to establish boundaries, such as relationships or work. |
| Criteria | Description |
|---|---|
| Specific | Define exactly what boundaries you want to set and why they are important to you. Consider how these boundaries will improve your well-being and relationships. |
| Measurable | Determine how you will track your progress towards implementing these boundaries. This could involve tracking specific actions or behaviors related to boundary-setting. |
| Achievable | Assess whether your goal is realistic and attainable given your current circumstances and resources. Consider any potential obstacles or challenges you may encounter and how you can overcome them. |
| Relevant | Ensure that your goal aligns with your values and long-term objectives. Reflect on how setting boundaries in this area of your life will contribute to your overall growth and happiness. |
| Time-bound | Set a clear timeframe for achieving your goal. Determine when you will start implementing these boundaries and establish milestones for assessing your progress along the way. |
Reflection and Goal Setting- EXAMPLES
| Area of Reflection | Goal |
|---|---|
| Setting Boundaries | I will communicate my need for personal space by scheduling regular 'me time' and expressing my boundaries clearly and assertively to my partner. |
| Criteria | Description |
|---|---|
| Specific | I will clearly define my need for personal space to my partner, specifying specific activities and times when I require alone time, and explaining why this is important for my well-being. |
| Measurable | I will track my progress by keeping a journal of how often I communicate my boundaries to my partner and monitoring any changes in their response and behavior towards respecting my need for personal space. |
| Achievable | Given my partner's understanding nature and our history of open communication, I believe this goal is achievable with consistent effort and mutual respect. |
| Relevant | Setting boundaries in this area of my life is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship and ensuring my own mental and emotional well-being. |
| Time-bound | I will start implementing these boundaries immediately and plan to have a conversation with my partner about them within the next week. I will then reassess and adjust as needed every month. |
| Area of Reflection | Goal |
|---|---|
| Criteria | Description |
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| Specific | |
| Measurable | |
| Achievable | |
| Relevant | |
| Time-bound |
<aside> 💡 SMART goals work because they provide a clear and structured framework for goal-setting, enhancing focus, motivation, and accountability, ultimately leading to increased effectiveness in achieving desired outcomes. This method breaks down objectives into specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound steps, facilitating progress tracking and adaptability to ensure success.
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